Our friends at Please Sex, spill the tea on period sex.
Let's talk about period sex. Yes, we said it: sex while youâre on your period. For some, itâs a âhard no', for others, itâs a âdonât knock it till you try itâ, and for the enlightened, itâs just an extra week of sex or even another way to spice things up. And to be fair, each to their own, thereâs no rights or wrongs here. But what we will say, is when it comes to pleasure and emotion, as with everything really, we encourage you to make decisions from an informed point of view. So, grab a cup because weâre diving in and spilling a couple myths and the many benefits within this delightful world of period sex. First up. Letâs bust these myths
Myth No. 1. Itâs Unhygienic
This is absolutely not true. Menstrual blood is just blood mixed with uterine lining and vaginal secretions. As long as you maintain regular hygiene, period sex is no more unclean than any other sex.
Myth No. 2. You canât get pregnant
While it's less likely, itâs not impossible. Sperm can live in the body for up to five days, and if you have a shorter cycle, you might ovulate soon after your period ends. So, if youâre not ready, consider protection.
Like we said, there were only really a couple of myths, and now that theyâre busted we can move on to all the perks.
1. Natural Lubrication
Believe it or not, menstrual blood acts as a natural lubricant, which as most of us know by now, can make sex way smoother and way more comfortable. Lube is a huge yes from us, always.
2. Pain Relief
Orgasms can actually help alleviate those excruciating cramps. The release of endorphins during climax acts as a natural painkiller. So, having sex might just be the most fun way to deal with period pain.
3. Heightened Sensitivity
Many people report feeling more aroused and even more sensitive during their period. Hormonal changes can increase blood flow to the pelvic area, which only enhances sensations.
4. Stronger Connections
Engaging in period sex can be a sign of trust and intimacy in your relationship. It shows that you and your partner are comfortable with each otherâs bodies in all their natural states.
Letâs talk about the nitty gritty now. The practicalities of period sex. Here are some tips
1. Preparation is Key
You might want to lay down a dark towel to catch any blood and have wet wipes or a warm washcloth handy for a quick clean-up afterwards. We recommend intimate wipes for this. The Pleasure is All Mine. This keeps the mess manageable and ensures a smooth transition back to cuddle mode.
2. Consider your Positions
Certain positions, like missionary or spooning, can be a lot more comfortable and less messy. Gravity is your friend here.
3. Use Protection
If youâre not trying to conceive or want to protect against STIs, donât forget the condom. Latex isnât afraid of a little blood. Weâve got the perfect pack for you. Come Connected.
4. Communicate
Keep the lines of communication open and flowing with your partner. Make sure both of you are comfortable and consensual. See what works, what feels good and comfortable. If either of you feels uneasy, itâs okay to skip the sex and enjoy other forms of intimacy.
5. Post-Sex Cleanup
A quick trip to the bathroom can help you clean up and prevent any potential infections. Peeing after sex is always a good idea, period or not. We love a quick rinse post sex.
Embracing the Flow
In the end, whether or not to have period sex is a totally personal choice. If youâre curious, donât let societal taboos hold you back. Itâs your body and your pleasure. The more comfortable and informed you are, the better your sexual experiences will be, regardless of what time of the month it is.
So, next time youâre on your period and feeling frisky, remember: the flow doesnât have to stop the fun. Embrace it, enjoy it, and most importantly, make it work for you. Period.